As an author I want to clearly understand the status of the items I have on the grid

ACs

• When request is sent and not yet approved
  • new "Archived/Trashed" label to read "Trash pending"
  • and the instance should continue published and fully visible on the grid
• Once the request gets approved
  • apply new "Archived/Trashed" label
  • and the instance should get unpublished and faded in 50% to indicate is no longer a 'workable' item
• All child content should follow the same UI pattern above
• Remove trash can icon
• Modified date should say the date it was "Archived/Trashed"